It’s been months yall, I know. I really make this a task instead of just a way to decompress so I have to do better. I really wanted to drop this on my birthday, but had no energy to really even type for real.
So going back to where we first left off- I’m not even going to lie. January-March was rough! It just felt like the enemy was testing me non-stop with life, decisions, choices, etc. I really had to fight through a lot of internal battles and just stay positive through it all. I think sometimes we don’t realize the many tests that life will teach us, and these tests will really keep reoccurring until you pass them.
Currently, I’m in a space of peace. My birthday just past and for the first time- I had NO desire to do ANYTHING. I normally go on big trips every year, but this year I was content with getting the things that my heart truly did desire. I felt like the past birthdays, I put off what I really wanted and instead just lived in the moment for the “fun.” But this year, I’m on some different shit. Lately, I’ve been really big on putting out what you want the universe to give you & putting the work towards getting that. Yes, prayer works too. But you still have to put in the work ALONG with the prayer. We have conditioned ourselves to believe we can just PRAY and the magic is going to appear, but you still have to put in the WORK along with the PRAYER.
I always try to be as relatable as possible and to still provide gems in the process. What I think you all want to do is the financial aspect of things. The two things I can say is: GET YOUR CREDIT RIGHT & CREATE CASH FLOW. Those are the two things that are SUPER important right now ESPECIALLY the way the economy is going. We have been misinformed and misled with A LOT how life goes. Once you really research, learn, and UN-LEARN to RE-LEARN- it truly unlocks a different type of freedom you never knew you had. That’s just a free gem.
Life has definitely been “lifing” with all caps emphasized, but I’ve really just been taking each day and making its best. This past month, I had internal goals that I was trying to reach before my birthday and can say I met them all. That leads me to another point, YOU CAN DO ANYTHING YOU WANT TO DO. I used to think that was cliché, but what it really takes is EXTREME discipline, no DISTRACTIONS and just straight grind.
Juggling my own life, preparing myself for this next chapter of my life, running my own business, running the music label, and being there for my family and friends, I have grown to become a bit overwhelmed lately. What I have learned through this phase is SEEKING HELP. Me as a person, I like to do everything because I’m an Aries and rather just get it done myself because I am a perfectionist (I’m working on it) instead of delegating. HOWEVER, I have learned that IN ORDER TO HELP OTHERS GROW and TO TAKE THE STRESS OFF OF YOU- IT IS OKAY TO ASK AND SEEK HELP.
I don’t know who needs to hear this, but IT IS OKAY TO ASK AND SEEK HELP. I also want to say this too… Stop putting your timeline and comparing it to everyone else’s. Let your time be your time. In the meantime, all you can do is work and stay the course. TThe moment you get caught up in what everyone else is doing, you get off course.
That is REAL LIFE.
But I know I haven’t written a blog lately, and felt like I needed to at least do a mental check-in with those that do look forward to my blogs and my thoughts, gems, etc. I’m going to also drop some books, apps, and other things that I’ve been into lately. I don’t know, it may help you accomplish something you’ve been wanting to get done!
Book Currently Reading:
Outwitting the Devil
Whew! This book right here. Yeah, you just gotta read it.
Video Currently Watching:
Trading Psychology
So, I day-trade already, but the thing about trading is that you ALWAYS have to perfect your craft. You can never stop learning about trading. I’m currently watching a more advanced video, but if you do care to learn about options day trading, check out this video.
App Currently Using:
Rocket Money
So, I’ve been trying to do a better job budgeting now that I have real life bills & responsibilities. This app helps as far as your budgeting goes.
Website Currently Using:
ChatGPT
This is a website that you can use to pretty much ask it anything. If you want to learn how to do something, if you want to know information, if you want to have something written up or done, use this website. It’s a gem!
DM me if you have any questions or anything that I can be of help to. I suck at responding on time, but I do make time to go back through everything and respond. Be blessed and keep pushing through!! XOXO!