I know… I know- I’m some BS because it’s been since March since the last time we talked for real. What is that… 8 months have passed since I checked in with y’all. Can we take our shoes off and our façade off for a second and really be honest?

This past year has been like a HUGE test for me for real. Going into 2022, I was really like “Oh- I’m going to roll out all this stuff, and do this and do that..” and not saying that I didn’t do it all, but I had to slow down because I realized I was doing it for validation and not for myself. Sometimes we get caught up feeling like we’re not doing enough and trying to keep up with time and others instead of just doing things to satisfy ourselves instead of other people. Sometimes we will just scroll and scroll on social media and feel like we’re behind in doing all these things instead of just accepting as long as you’re being intentional with your time every day- that’s all that matters.

2022 was also a year for me that I really realized as long as you have pure genuine intentions with people-that’s all that matters on your end. I think this year I was more unapologetic about my decisions, myself, and my life. Because I really am trying to take over the world type shit, and this type of shit ain’t for the weak, AT ALL. I stay up countless nights with no sleep yall for real for real, just working on a masterplan for myself, my life, and my future. When you REALLY find your passion and purpose in life- it’s like that’s really all that you be on for real.

I don’t know I’m writing this blog with a sense of peace, a sense of transition, a sense of light and love. Because reality is.. time is just steady going. And I think for me- I’ve really realized to stop taking my time and my tribe for granted. Really build with the people that are on what you’re on and really build with the time you have….

As far as my soft girl era- at the top of the year one of the things that I also vowed to myself was being more of a homemaker. The Aries and the 26-year-old in me is very goal driven, but I also had to realize the right man don’t really give a fuck about if you have six figures or not. Lol! So, I am embracing my soft girl side more… cooking more, finding cute recipes and shit on Tiktok & IG to make, staying at home more, and just making time for me more. I think before this year- there was no soft girl Brittney for real. Yeah, I liked to do some stuff around the house and etc, but I think to me your “soft girl era” is really being content with staying at home, making sure your home is in structure, cooking, cleaning etc. I don’t know… that’s just my opinion.

But 2023 yall… I’m doing my big one and popping it- I’m going to go ahead and tell yall now. Humble is just a part of my character, but I’m popping it humbly. Lol. And I encourage everyone to do the same though for real- if you’ve really been sleep on yourself and been procrastinating on shit- let this be a sign to get up and really go crazy for real!

But okay… I’m done talking chile. For those of you who genuinely be reading this- leave a comment to let me know yall really read it. Lol. But that’s it, that’s all for now. I’ll catch up with yall later- let’s kill shit in 2023.